being uncivil would be a nice start
Interestingly, one of our biggest strengths is also one of our biggest problems: we were generally raised right. We're generally polite, well-mannered, civil, courteous, and kind. We mind our own business. We're not always looking for the upper hand. We're honest. We tell the truth. We trust people until they give us a reason not to. We look for the best in people, rather than assuming the worst. We generally do not want to tell others how to live.
I think it's time to not be civil. I'm thinking of a quote from a movie where the good guy finally got tired of putting up with the bad guys' crap, "You tell 'em I'm coming, and Hell's coming with me!"
Just a thought.