Rather than talk about dying, talk about being extremely smart and living. A good soldier must talk about and believe for the enemy dying. Also, remember the Redcoats who fought their war in the same old way that they always did. In perfect lines they died when gorilla warfare took them down.
To be a good soldier one must think outside of the box, and sometimes way, way outside of the box. Don't think in old terms. This is a new day with enemies that have much armor, technology and man power.
Especially remember David and Goliath. The prevailing Philistines were mightily overtaken. A young boy took down a big armored giant because he did the unexpected with the leading of The LORD.
Don’t get the wrong idea... I’m not ignorant of tactics... I am using a euphemism regarding my choice to fight rather than become a subservient slave of a tyrannical atheist fascist government.