“Yes, but what can we do? You can’t “make” someone have a child any more than you can force them not to...
I (white male) didn’t marry until 30.
If either of us had married in our 20s, to anyone either of us had been romantically involved with, we’d both be miserable right now - but as it stands, we have one child, would like one more, and we’re mature and able to raise our family right.
Is it somehow my fault I didn’t meet the woman I wanted to marry until I was 28?”
Did your parents and your in-laws teach both of you how important family is, to start early, have as many as possible and not to look as children as an inconvenience?
What can you do to repair the situation? Teach your children to value life, marriage, children, and family.
Hispanics place a much higher value on such and it reflects in the number of children they have. Until Whitey gets with the program and makes family a priority you will continue to see this demographic accelerate into minority status on a national level.
At some point the white women will have to return to the place they abandoned starting in the early 1970s if they want to turn this trend around. Where women go the men will follow.
My parents divorced in 1989. However, they taught me to have children with the right woman, not the first crazy b*tch I went on 2 dates with, when I didn't even make enough money to support MYSELF let alone anyone else.
I have to disagree on one thing - most of the reason from what I see that minorities have more kids isn’t because of a love of family so much as due to not knowing how to open a condom wrapper. For some, sure but the alarming number of single mothers that I see (of all races) completely negates what you’ve said.
Flame away.
You don’t know “jack”