You've asked some thought provoking questions.
Answering for myself, I married a liberated white woman, yet we choose to be together and we have two smart and fun loving children. The children attend a private school and when they are not in school, they are with one or both of us. We both do well in our careers but live well below our means, pocketing or investing the rest toward the purpose of providing a more secure future for our liberated half-white, half-brown children. This is a model that works for us, though I accept that it is not perfect and appreciate that others can succeed in their life goals through other methods.
What is the fate of conservatism? As families from various cultures, religions, and ideologies are increasing their numbers, conservatives are making fewer conservatives. Still, I do not lay the blame on the liberated white woman. Perhaps liberated white men that need to kick it up a notch so that the liberated white women will want them around!
Fantastic post NC - : )
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