All children come from one flesh families.
They all have ONE mom and ONE dad.
Dad may be a sperm donor. Mom may be a surrogate mother. Regardless we all have ONE mom and ONE dad.
If that mom and dad, for whatever reasons, are not together and parenting that child. . .
the child suffers.
We as individuals and as a society have to do the best by that child.
Perhaps it means we, as a widowed spouse, raise the kid ourselves with help from our family.
Perhaps it means that we, as an abandoned spouse, find and marry a better husband/wife and they do our best as a step parent.
Perhaps it means we adopt kids who are abandoned, or foster care them.
In any event, our attempts to fix the loss are not wrong. What is wrong are the situations that caused the kids to suffer. With the exception of the inadvertent death of a parent - that is just a tragedy. At least the kid knows in that case that his parent didn’t leave him on purpose.
We as individuals and as a society have to do the best by that child.Ding ding ding. Now the question is, *how do we do that*? Solve that problem and the problem of homosexual parents goes away.