[Bad Jack Bauer]

Interesting sub-thread you have going. Talking about 'being a man' and 'what a man should have done'. A 'man' doesn't mess around with another guys wife, nor does a 'man' mess around on his own wife. Period.

Wooing and marrying a woman is not the endall. A guy has to be worthy of keeping her and she is the one who decides if a man is worthy of her in the long run or not. Rare is the man who loses his woman because he is not enough of a wuss.

[LearnsFromMistakes]

You committed adultery with the guys wife, and then expected him to treat you ‘like a man’? or, at least your definition of what a ‘man’ would do? As a society, we need to rediscover what it means to ‘be a man’.