The Woodstock generation tried so hard to imprint the “it’s okay to have casual sex” message that now girls are trapped in a culture that can’t say the message: “it’s okay NOT to have casual sex”. Unintended consequences yet again.
I taught the abstinence program at the teen girl’s retreat in my church. It is really important for these young ladies to find out that they are too precious to be wasted on this one and that one. They have to know who they are and love themselves (meaning a precious child of G-d). Abstinence won’t stick unless that notion is married to the notion of honoring G-d with every fiber of your being including your temple.
I don’t get how someone can have such intimate relations w/someone they don’t know.I wasn’t brought up that way and the idea makes me sick.