I kept waiting until Kathey was free to drive for me before trying to arrange a lunch. I don't wish her aunt to pass away, but I sure do miss my "right hand" friend.
I understand your conflicted feelings about Kathy. When you see her, tell her I said Hi! and that I'll pray for her.
There are some nice photos of Eric's graduation on FB, so if you get there, take a look.
Maybe some time I can just get in my old van and come all the way to WV to see you. I would LOVE that!