Gotta go with Non-Sequitur. I usually research sources very carefully, but in this case, I’m going to jump to the conclusion that a homosexual revisionist “exploring” Lincoln’s alleged sex life is a very bad, albeit funny, one. :-)
BTW, one thing I find fascinating about the war is that sometimes during the downtime between engagements, Southern soldiers would get together with Northern soldiers for a game of baseball. Sometimes they were just guys, speaking the same vernacular.
They were Americans after all. Like you said, and despite the efforts of some to demonize their perceived enemies, they were sometimes literally brother fighting brother. And there were honorable people on both sides...
But most of the time they were warriors; one side defending their homeland and the other side following their corrupt leaders whose objective was to subjugate the Southland for personal, financial and political gain.