Agree. Our first duty is to family. It is not my responsibility to care for someone who didn’t prepare when all the signs were warning of danger.
Opening your door could turn your home into a superdome congregation and leave your family perhaps worse off.
When people are desperate your life is of no concern to them.
When it all goes bad, the focus gets local pretty quick. If you’re in a nurban area, don’t wait around for things to get better and have some place to go.