I agree with Kakaze, and I disagree with varyouga, although I have heard his story many times. It really is not true. If you believe you only find women who do not want to be treated well, you must be looking in the wrong places. I assure you that most women, and all the Christian women I know, want men who treat them with respect and respond in kind.
And if you have a relationship with someone who does not want to be treated well, then what kind of sick relationship would that be? People like the jerk in this article don’t have relationships. They have sexual encounters like animals. It’s sick. They are sad specimens indeed, and I feel very sorry for them.
It is no different than men who are excited by physically “hot” women with less than ideal minds. They are attracted to the health her beauty projects and are programmed to use her as an “incubator”. Impregnating many healthy women would yield the greatest number of strong, healthy offspring. Even if 90%+ of their personalities were less than ideal.
I didn't mean to say ALL women select men based on aggression and excitement. But the few “rational” women that I have met were somewhat boring, “cookie-cutter” and didn't seek as much excitement in life as I would have liked. Exciting women generally choose men that excite them on an “animal” level.
Our “animal” instincts come into play far more than we like.