Ha! Let me guess . . . “The point is, again, and again—I’ll say it slowly, OK—you are trying to build an enemy or a spectre out of the concept of debt, which for a woman is different than debt for an individual or a man.”
The universal response is along this line:
“I’d like to pay for things with cash but I can’t afford to.”
“I’d like to pay more than the minimum monthly payment but I can’t afford to.”
It’s called self delusion. If you start to break through their delusion and get close to making themselves see what they are saying and doing, they lose their temper.
THEY. WILL. NOT. LOOK. IN. THE. MIRROR.
if you try to force them, they will defend themselves...with violence. They will literally hate you.
It is a sickness and our government has it.