I can see that. And I appreciate her finesse. If I’d had to suffer in public what she has been made to endure, I would take the gloves off. But I have no problem ceding that she is a more refined woman than I am.
Think Mark Anthony in Julius Caesar saying that Brutus is “an honorable man”, at first to sound reasonable and win over those predisposed to like and honor Brutus; by the end “honorable man” is an epithet, and the crowd howls for the blood of Brutus.