If you don't care about the chilllllllldrun, then you're just as lost as Olson.
There is no common ground. If we are destined to war over this issue, let's get it on.
Did you notice that you just equated opposing government control over marriage with “not caring about the children”? “It’s for the children” has been the left’s favorite justification for never-ending expansion of government control over people’s lives and finances. It’s a lie. Government control of families is not a benefit to children, it’s a benefit to government.