Sorry to hear about your loss, it seems 2009 was not the best year for many people.
Regarding the NYT.. my dad said the same thing! Our research is pretty unbiased I think, we mostly just look for the facts and report what they mean.
My Mom was 84. Not quite the same. You Mom was way too young. I know you miss her terribly, but comfort yourself with her memories. She raised a really fine son.
Welcome home.