Again, that makes sense for concealed carry on the body. Most of the time, my purse is where I carry, which allows me to have the larger gun without difficulty. As I get more guns I will likely purchase a smaller 9mm next for just the reasons you state.
I like the Springfield - fits my hand better than the Glock, but wouldn’t say no to either one!
“fits my hand better”
And that is key! Really doesn’t matter what cal you carry compared to other factors. A firearm that fits your hand and you PRACTICE with is far superior to one loaded with technically “stronger” rounds that isn’t comfortable to handle and/or you don’t practice with. After all, if the awfulness happens and your adrenalin is pumping, being effective with your self-defense weapon is key!
Now, given that, if you (as apparently are many freepers) are comfortable with many options, the technicals do matter.