I am thinking medical.
Pure STDeez.
How many of these men are hetro?
How many of these men are not looking to rob a bank account?
How many of these women at Cougar age are just lost/unwise like a sail with no mast.
Now with that being said...
Nothing wrong with enjoying life and your hobbies and enriching them socially and sexually.
Being extremely Selective and chastity is a huge endowment.
Better to be a flower untouched but by one bee to polenate than a swarm of and die the next day.
I think each side is looking for a “huge endowment”!