Is it right to force YOU to pay for the care?
Yes. A society is judged by how it treats its weakest and most vulnerable members. Compassion comes at a price. I am willing to pay that price.
Some day I may be that most vulnerable member.
Whilst I am as opposed to socialized medicine or taxpayer funded care as anyone, and seeing as there are or will be other means if the current climate abates, discussing such cold hearted and Draconian subjects while a life is in the balance, especially the life of a child, only plays to the worst stereotypes of how socialized medicine supporters view conservatives.
Sometimes it is not about the money even if it is about the costs.