She had 9 months + 11 months for a total of 20 months to figure this out. Of course 20 months ago she should have been smart enough not to be in this situation. Where’s daddy or his family?
Of course, it would have been nice to have known this would happen before the deployment but many people underestimate the amount of care and supervision that an 11month old requires. It appears that the woman's crime was not having a back up plan to her back up plan.