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Military mom without childcare goes AWOL
ABC/ KGO-TV San Francisco, CA ^ | November 13, 2009 | Lyanne Melendez

Posted on 11/15/2009 4:28:16 PM PST by Lorianne

The U.S. Army is dealing with an emotional and complicated case involving an Oakland woman. She's a single mother, scheduled to be deployed to Afghanistan, even though she has no one to care for her 11-month-old baby.

The woman is a 21-years-old single mom, who was almost on her way to Afghanistan. However, she is not the only one. A report released last month says 30,000 single mothers have been deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan since 9/11.

For now 11-month-old Kamani Hutchinson is being cared for by his grandmother, Angelique Hughes of Oakland. A few days ago she flew to Savannah, Georgia after learning the Army had put Kamani in Child Protective Services.

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TOPICS: Culture/Society; Government
KEYWORDS: militarymoms; militarywomen; shechosepoorly
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To: TXnMA

Or instead just don’t let them deploy at all. . . .but wait. . .that would put undue hardship on males in service (and their wives and children) as those men take up the slack for the single moms. So, the men that are responsible are now double-tapped to not only look out for their own family, but for the single mom, too. But hey, the military is supposed to be a social welfare child-care agency, anyway. . .this going to war stuff is sooo dated.

Single mothers are required, required by regulation to have a plan when it comes to deployment. No exceptions.

The “simply avoid” comment was uncalled for attack against all men.


41 posted on 11/15/2009 5:17:24 PM PST by Hulka
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To: Lorianne

Yes, you are correct.


42 posted on 11/15/2009 5:17:52 PM PST by Hulka
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To: Lorianne

Well the Army owns you when you are enlisted and you might want to think ahead before getting pregnant when serving! Now when she is caught she could go to the brig and the kid directly to fostercare.


43 posted on 11/15/2009 5:21:36 PM PST by chris_bdba
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To: JoeFromSidney

Why horonable? After shehas went AWOL I’d think a general discharge would be more appropriate?


44 posted on 11/15/2009 5:23:02 PM PST by chris_bdba
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To: colorado tanker

How many of “these things” do you supposed are planned?

;-)

Sometimes exposure takes, and sometimes it doesn’t.


45 posted on 11/15/2009 5:24:14 PM PST by bannie
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To: SHOOT THE MOON bat

I’m sorry he didnt’t get to go, but I was referring more to people that have to cover for women like her. Women Marines get away with this kind of stuff all the time. They can just keep getting pregnant and never have the responsibilities (PFT’s, deployments, etc) that my husband and others do. I don’t feel it’s right. It makes me sound like a child to rant about it not being fair, I know, but he goes so much. This last deployment was really bad, both for him and for our family, but we did what we were required to do. She should have to do the same. If not, then she should not be in the Army. Period.


46 posted on 11/15/2009 5:24:18 PM PST by USMCWife6869
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To: USMCWife6869

When both parents are soldiers, it gets sticky.


47 posted on 11/15/2009 5:25:52 PM PST by bannie
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To: TXnMA
The military does not seem to be helping much with this particular problem.

No sympathy. It is not the military's responsibility to provide daycare for unwed mothers. These women wanted combat duty, equal treatment' etc. The slut got herself into this situation. Discharge her from the Army.

48 posted on 11/15/2009 5:26:34 PM PST by Lion Den Dan
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To: JoeDetweiler
What the hell is this woman doing in the Army?
What the hell are ANY women doing in the Army?
49 posted on 11/15/2009 5:27:21 PM PST by AUH2O Repub ( SPalin/Hunter 2012)
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To: ColdWater
...30,000 single mothers have been deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan since 9/11."

All of these women in the military, and the rest of the men are hiding behind their skirts. I've never agreed with the concept of women in the military, except in auxilliary positions. All due respect goes to them, but it's totally unnecessary for women to be fighting the battles men should be fighting.

50 posted on 11/15/2009 5:27:36 PM PST by FrdmLvr ("The people will believe what the media tells them they believe." Orwell)
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To: JoeDetweiler

“What the hell is this woman doing in the Army?”

One of the main reasons I oppose women in the military. Women get pregnant. They just do.

Not only does it keep them from being battle ready in many instances -

the children really suffer.


51 posted on 11/15/2009 5:30:30 PM PST by Marie2 (The second mouse gets the cheese.)
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To: USMCWife6869

I was doing PT up until the births...I came back from c-sections and PT’d and fulfilled all of my obligations right along with the others. It wasn’t easy, but what is?

People who are going to milk a system are going to milk any system. Good soldiers are good soldiers, and their careers show that.


52 posted on 11/15/2009 5:33:17 PM PST by bannie
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To: SHOOT THE MOON bat

A young unmarried childless man from our church joined the Marine reserves just before we went to Afghanistan/Iraq. He was never deployed anywhere. He was in the reserves for five years, never saw action. Nothing wrong with him, either.

Meanwhile I read of National Guard troops etc. doing two, three, four tours of duty and they aren’t even supposed to have to go overseas.


53 posted on 11/15/2009 5:34:38 PM PST by Marie2 (The second mouse gets the cheese.)
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To: TXnMA
If the military is going to put women in combat zones, they, at least, should recognize that they may have needs that most male soldiers simply avoid...

It was political correctness that got them there when all the arguments against women in combat warned of such things..............Now let the dad take care of the child.

54 posted on 11/15/2009 5:38:14 PM PST by Hot Tabasco
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To: JoeDetweiler; Lorianne

Single mothers are required by regulation to have a child care plan. If hers fell through - or if she failed to have one - she should receive the general discharge she has waiting for her.

If she survives the jeopardy of a bad-conduct discharge and/or jail time for going AWOL, of course.


55 posted on 11/15/2009 5:38:31 PM PST by MortMan (Stubbing one's toes is a valid (if painful) way of locating furniture in the dark.)
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To: knarf
11-month-old Kamani Hutchinson, mother Alexis Hutchinson, grandmother, Angelique Hughes ...

I am NOT going here ....

As Chris Rock said, "If you call your grandma 'Mom', and your mom 'Pam', you goin' to jail..."


Frowning takes 68 muscles.
Smiling takes 6.
Pulling this trigger takes 2.
I'm lazy.

56 posted on 11/15/2009 5:38:41 PM PST by The Comedian (Evil can only succeed if good men don't point at it and laugh.)
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To: JoeFromSidney

The GI Bill should not be a freebie for any woman who uses getting pregnant as a reason to leave the military before their contractual ETS (Exit-The_Service) date.


57 posted on 11/15/2009 5:40:16 PM PST by MortMan (Stubbing one's toes is a valid (if painful) way of locating furniture in the dark.)
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To: Lorianne

Bush’s fault?


58 posted on 11/15/2009 5:40:43 PM PST by Don Corleone ("Oil the gun..eat the cannolis. Take it to the Mattress.")
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To: bannie
Good soldiers are good soldiers, and their careers show that.

Roger that - and thank you for your service!

59 posted on 11/15/2009 5:42:32 PM PST by MortMan (Stubbing one's toes is a valid (if painful) way of locating furniture in the dark.)
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To: Lorianne
Thank you, Patsy Schroeder and company! Having more and more women in the military, especially those deployed forward into combat zones, are more important that the readiness of the units to which they're assigned.

I have no doubt that there are women who are perfectly capable of performing any duty handed to them. The question is, "IS THAT WHAT'S BEST FOR THE UNIT?" After all, the military isn't an "old boys club." It's an organization where people will die and wars will be lost because of a lack of preparedness. The old saying "for the want of a nail, the war was lost" is absolutely true. People like Schroeder and her ilk hate the military for what it is, but see the military as something with which to experiment. And those experiments cost lives!

Mark

60 posted on 11/15/2009 5:43:24 PM PST by MarkL (Do I really look like a guy with a plan?)
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