Every religionist - like you - is - has to be - at root a fanatic.
Oh, my.... so now you've gone full-blown libertarian ad hominem, and right on schedule, too.
You guys are soooo predictable.
The act of having a child has no moral implications. It has legal implications as part of an expedient and legally-enforced social contract. Nothing more. Your Chrisitian beliefs lead you to idealize childhood and child raising..babies in mangers, a child shall lead them, and other such sentimentality.