I just feel bad for my friend in his particular situation.
This "916K a year in alimony and child support" story sounds like something that my friend's wife would throw at him should he try to exit the mental/emotional brutality that they call a "marriage."
Obviously the part about the 29 year old girlfriend probably added to their problems, but some (note I did not say all) women turn into real cash-grabbers at divorce court hearings.
Such is the potential case with my friend.
I wasn't looking to start a fight, and I apologize if I offended you.
Well, you know the old joke:
Why is getting a divorce so expensive?
Because it’s worth it!