I think I understand! I should point out that it’s CPS that is monitoring him, not the cops. I assume they would be involved with the family anyway, because of the custody case, so it’s a question of whether or not he’s a fit guardian, not whether or not he should go to jail.
If he did make them watch porn he could lose custody, but not be charged with a crime.
It’s sad that we have to look at every little thing and ask “How will this be used against me?”, but that’s the America we live in.
I understand your point as well. Divorce does change things. Someone has to be the intermediate between the parents. I guess that is one more good reason for conservatives to keep the marriage vows.