Women want men who are confident leaders.
Women want control in a relationship and now view being submissive to a man as a bad thing.
Consequently, if the woman gets control, then she is unhappy because her man is not leading and his confidence is shaken. She will despise him.
And if the woman doesn’t get control, instead of being happy that her man is a confident leader, she feels slighted and ignored. And sinks into self pity and becomes angry at her man.
Women have set up a no win situation, where they are going to be unhappy regardless of what the man does.
That’s far too confusing. I’ll just keep doing what I’ve been doing and let them fight it out amongst themselves.
Tremendous analysis. I would add a rider though...yes women have set up a no-win situation for themselves, but they have also set up a no-win situation for men as well.
Come on, don’t buy into the ‘all women are victims’ line here. No-win situation.
How ‘bout being a conservative white guy in today’s world. We’re the problem for everything. Nobody out there has our backs. Nobody bends over backwards not to fire us. They don’t care if they say offensive things to us, we just better take it and not say anything back. God forbid we fight with our spouse, we get a domestic violence charge slapped at us and get put through the ringer by female divorce attorneys sponsored by any number of womens’ groups. Made indentured sevants to the govt via child support services that only serve to make things worse between the ex’s. Women still have choies to stay at home or work, even without kids. Nobody rips them for that, men have never had that option without negative connotations. The whole unequal pay issue, after factoring the levels of jobs, time off for maternity, etc, changes the gap to only a couple cents difference.
When do we get our support group? When do we get our march? When do we get a bunch of non-profits out there representing our interests? We’re less than equal, having less acceptable choices available, but always portrayed as more than equal.
And can we just finally stop this whole stupid trend of tiny women somehow kicking the crap out of huge guys in the movies and tv? It’s just ridiculous.
You are so right! Well done Danny Boy!
Cheers
Mel
Genesis 3:16.