I love your tagline. I had a similar “gestalt moment” when I worked with 2 elderly nurses and, as their supervisor, I had to have a discussion with them on the importance of giving these adolescents we were working with their medications on time...and they both remarked “pshaw! it doesn’t really matter”...took me many years before I realized that in the scheme of things and the long run...”pshaw, it really doesn’t matter...life is a game and you just need to play it”.....I have learned a lot from the folks “over 80” in the last few years...have loved spending time with them. You’re so fortunate to have your friend.
Sooooo, back home and here we are. She is playing with the cat.