RWGInger, please ignore THEFACTOR's nastiness. Some people on this forum think that the length of their membership on FR makes them smart. They usually use the "newbie attack" (which no longer even applies to you) when they have nothing to say. So please read thefactor's post just in this way: he screams at the top of his lungs that he has nothing to say.
you know as well as i do that people say that all the time around here. if you disagreed with him you would have said the exact same thing i did, with perhaps a "welcome to FR" thrown in for good measure.
get off that horse you came in on. that statement was about 160 posts ago. feel free to read the rest of them.
and if you agree with him, so be it. his inital statement was basically "rules are rules" not taking into account that there is an actual child involved in this case. seems to be going around a lot lately.