There is a better way. For 2 1/2 years I took care of my mother in my home. The last year she was incontinent. I didn’t waiver, my family supported me and she died here at our home. I have no regrets. None. If I can do it anyone can.
God bless you! Both my Mother and Mother in Law were cared for at home by their spouses. It’s not easy, but life is not always easy.
Thanks for sharing the loving stories. You and your mom were selfless and brave for doing that! Being a primary caregiver is not an easy job.