[greyfoxx39]

Often I shake my head at the things that are said and done in the Church (by the members and the leaders

I guess that means they are "disagreeable"?

[Logophile]

I guess that means they are "disagreeable"?

They certainly can be.

More often, they are naive, ill-informed, or foolish. Since I have at various times in my life been all that and worse, I try to make allowances.