BUMP! Well said.
You nailed it precisely. While gay marriage may be legalized by fiat, while fear of hate crime prosecution may scare us into keeping our mouths shut, while the state may even officially declare homosexuality normal—which, bottom line, is what the gay lobby has always really wanted—nothing, including wide-spread & media-reinforced public acceptance will ever make it normative—unless and until the proud parents of a newborn become indifferent to the child’s eventual sexual orientation and behavior.