Im far from an idiot.
You have never proven this in your posting here.
How many babies did your obstetrician personally give birth to?
I helped raise my sister the first 10 years of her life.
I have a handful of close emotional children and many dozens less close.
I’ve counseled probably in excess of 3,000 people in individual, family and group sessions over 35+ years and known significant details about the lives of another 2,500 plus individuals and their families.
YOUR TURN to answer my questions, hot shot.