Exactly. I know when I received a call that my only sister and best friend died suddenly, totally unexpectedly, I did everything that was scheduled on my calendar that day. I HAD to, or wouldn’t have made it through the day. If I’d had a hair appointment I would have kept it! And maybe if I’d thought of it, I’d have made one. We just have to do what we have to do to keep it together as best we can.
Exactly correct. Who of us can say how we would deal with it? The day after my father died, my sister and I went to the salon together to get our hair cut and styled. It was too painful to think and plan for what was coming and we just wanted to take our minds off it all for a short time. My 2 brothers went out together for a couple drinks to talk and reminisce. We all deal with grief in our own ways...
Blessings to you and I am sorry for the loss of your sister.