Laura's child was a 3 year old in a third world orphanage. It was unlikely that the child would ever have a father OR a mother in those circumstances.
To condemn that child to further time in an orphanage in the hopes that she might one day have both a mother and father is evil.
Perfect is the enemy of the good.
As a point of information, is that directed at me? If so, you don't know what the h*ll you're talking about.