I think the military was used to dealing with George Bush and got treated with respect and also received timely answers.
With Obama there is no respect and obviously disarray. Not good and even worse with a hot war going on and our troops dying on the battle field.
I am reminded of Caligula—who marched his army to the English Channel, they thinking they were about to invade Britain. Instead he had them pick up seashells. Yes, he was a lunatic.