A fender bender will have half a dozen show up to stand around.
Where I grew up, young men developed their sense of responsibility, leadership, and community involvement in the VFD. I never served in the military, but I am ever thankful that I was in the VFD there and came to know the sense of brotherhood shared by people who meet a common and potentially lethal threat for the benefit of others you often do not even know.
While I have been blessed with the opportunity to do many things in my life, those years stand out as some of the very best.