Oh it's a SELF-injury, is it? She's a sociopath.
Vilar attended boarding school in New Hampshire and was just 15 when she left for Syracuse University, where she fell in love and later married her first husband, a tyrannical 50-year-old professor.
With a predilection for young women, he bragged that his relationships had never lasted more than five years and that having children killed sexual desire.
She says their emotionally dependent relationship was riddled with shame, self-mutilation and several suicide attempts.
That first husband was apparently Pedro Cuperman, still a Spanish professor at Syracuse.
She finds stability and love with a new husband, a writer and poet, and she builds a new family, reveling in the motherhood she once thought was impossible.
Impossible? Just because she kept murdering her children? Anyway her current husband is apparently Peter Grandbois; they appear to live in Boulder, Colorado (though he's also on the faculty at Cal State Fresno)...good place for them.
kinda odd for a man to say....that's more what some women say
my wife having kids one after another shore didn't slow me down hoss.