should be based on the couple’s stability, mental state, financial ability.. i don’t want gay couples raising kids though..THAT’s where the “unless a child is being harmed” comes in... I don’t think being gay is normal or good, I just don’t think its anyone’s business unless they want kids..then all bets are off.
You're evading the obvious questions. WHO makes the determination of a couple's suitability to raise a child? What reasonable criterion, which must certainly be established, will be set and used?
Who's to say that "all bets are off?" Is this only your opinion, or do you want this prohibition on who may not raise kids manifested in society? What if someone welshes on a bet - who is appointed to enforce?