Wrong. His father was never part of the household.
Immediately after his birth, his mother took him to Washington state, where she took courses at the U of W. Meanwhile, BHO, Sr. continued his studies in Hawaii. She didn't return to Hawaii until after the sperm donor had departed for Harvard without her.
Exactly right! His mother abandoned the father not the other way around. But they have to keep playing the official “Dreams” birth myth.