I'd suggest a better screen name for you would be Cold Toe. It is unnecessary to beat up on people up when they are going through this. Perhaps you need to grow the hell up and act like an adult. She is dealing with her situation and is not expected to be in a great mood right now by the practical folks. In comparison your situation on a forum does not really compare and it's a shame you can't have some composure and compassion.
“It is unnecessary to beat up on people up when they are going through this. “
But it is OK for them to lash out at others? Get real.