Are you going to conceed my point about the husband having the final say in the decisions about raising the child?
If not then I won't bother showing you the verses.
If the courts you practice in recognize the primacy of God and His Scripture, you must be one fortunate attorney. Where I practiced, the courts recognized the primacy of the judiciary almighty and, The Epistle to the Romans notwithstanding, no one would have accused most judges in that state of Godliness.
As to another point in another post, sending one's children to gummint skewels may well be sinful and mortally so depending on the specific facts of the particular facts of the particular PS 666. Like all other sins, one has free will and God will not directly interfere to prevent sin but that does not mean that we may may sin with impunity.