Like I said in another post, if she had placed her hand on my face, she would have been in a submission hold in 2 seconds. You have NO RIGHT to physically touch me. But I do have the RIGHT to physically defend myself. Even against an elderly woman.
And her personal-injury-lawyer husband would have had a lawsuit filed the same day that claimed that your submission hold permanently damaged her wrist, rendering her unable to work, and suing you and everybody connected to you for a million dollars.
That's what they would have WANTED you to do, with lots of pictures being taken.
It would not have mattered if they won or lost. They would have forced you to spend thousands on lawyers handling depositions.