I worked around a homosexual when I was younger.
He was married and had kids. He really obsessed on birthday parties with his children and took an active part in them. He was one with the children. In retrospect, If I could travel back in time, I would now anonymously warn the parents of children who attended those parties.
Hmmmm.......I would think that reflecting back on those events really raises your eyebrows now. But we just didn’t know then what we know about them now.