My oldest daughter didn't want to learn. She had no interest & refused to help with preparing food. So she cleaned the kitchen after dinner. There was no point in fighting with her. She can cook quite well now. Why force the issue? I had enough to do with 5 teenagers then fight with her. However my boys all can cook, sew & clean. The middle one enjoys cooking & never minds making dinner.
I actually wanted to learn but my grandmother couldn’t be bothered.