This is a very difficult case. Obviously I want government out of our business, but in this case, I believe the best option is to get that kid away from his mother as soon as possible. She clearly does not have time for him and feels throwing him a pop tart is parenting. At 14, weighing 555 pounds is insane and something needs to be done or this kid won’t see 18.
Mom doesn’t appear to feel at all responsible here but I can also see how this sort of thing could be used for all sorts of other reasons.