If you would like to change the gender designation on your driver license or ID card to accurately reflect your identity, mail a written request to:
Assistant Director for Driver Policy and Programs
Department of Licensing
PO Box 9030
Olympia, WA 98507-9030
The request must include all of the following:
A letter from you requesting the change in gender designation. The letter must include:
The name, address, and gender designation shown on your current driver license or ID card.
The name, address, and gender designation you want on the new driver license or ID card.
Your current phone number.
A letter on official letterhead from your licensed medical, osteopathic physician or psychologist stating you have initiated the appropriate clinical treatment.
An amended, certified copy of your birth certificate showing your new gender. If you cannot get an amended, certified copy of your birth certificate, include a copy of the letter on official letterhead from the state or country where you were born denying your request for an amended birth certificate, or a note indicating the state or country where you were born didn’t respond to your request for an amended birth certificate. If the state or county doesn’t respond to your request, we will work with you to get an amended birth certificate, denial letter, or confirmation that neither is available.
A photocopy of your current Washington State driver license or ID card.
If you want to change your name, you must also include an original or certified copy of your Court Ordered Name Change.
http://www.dol.wa.gov/driverslicense/change.html#genderchange
Gubmint sanctioned insanity. The entire thing should be thrown in the trash. Time to start over from scratch.