Yes.. Or stand at the grave and read it (or put laminate it and weight it down with a rock or something).
My grandmother died before my wedding. I thought about leaving an invite on her grave but for multiple reasons (security reason, the garbage factor, etc) decided not to.
Instead I sat there and read it to her then brought it back home with me. Cried a lot too.
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Okay now I am teary eyed.....what a sweet thing to do....