We’ve both have/had family members with physical and mental disabilities. My family is very, very tolerant and forgiving, however there are things that are unacceptable to us and poking fun at a person’s disbility is one of them.
We actually saw the kid for the first time since that day a couple months ago. He asked me if I was so Christian why I wouldn’t fogive him. (Ha! Lecturing me on morals! Imagine that!) I said, “We forgive you. We just don’t want you around us. There are special circles of hell for people like you. I’d be asking God for a little of that forgivness if I were you.”
How about forgiving him if he truly recognized that his views were evil and disgusting, and convincingly demonstrated repentance?