And I’m supposed to take ~your~ word for that?
FYI, at the age of 21, I became a military -wife- to a Navy man who programmed the computers of those planes you sat and watched. [E3s, actually]
The second marriage is to an AF vet who served during the early Viet Nam era.
[and go look up Godwin’s Law because you just broke it and lost the argument, invertebrate]
And all this time I thought you were a guy!