I will never allow conservatism to be "just like the liberals". We are better, and as much as it may make some people feel better to act like liberals, there is no benefit to it.
And make room for the non-Christians among us who don't get into that "heap coals on their head" stuff. Democrats don't care.
We need diversity in our big tent of a movement ~ and that necessarily includes a warrior class who simply do not feel the otherside are deserving of humane treatment.