That's right its always the guys fault never the wife's fault for marriage problems.There victims always.
Except that adultry is not marriage trouble. It creates the marriage trouble and destroys the marriage. I base that on the fact adultry is the one time God permits divorce. If adultry was the fault of both, He would not have done that.
Rational people who perceive their marriage is not what they want first get the divorce and then move on. Happens a lot. Those who decide to have their cake and eat it too have serious integrity problems and place their children last on their list.