Your tenacity in the search of truth is boundless. If it would be of any benefit to you, I would claim you as a member of my immediate family. :-)
One, or both, of us has to post a revised chronology...as best fits the unadulterated facts as they appear to be, given our best guess. Already, my brain hurts... so you go first.
I.E., we need a new best-guess time-line-—a “simple” DATE-EVENT time-line.
I’m thinking we need to produce some kind of truth serum into which we immerse ‘Dreams From My Father’ ... it has to be a medium that disolves lies; so that the ink rises to a scum at the top. And what is left on the pages will be the truth.
But there’ll be nothing but empty pages -